Once you’ve learned to
bring more smiles into your life, you need to learn how to steer away from
negativity. This involves avoiding situations which bring in a lot of
negativity. Calling this as escapism would be wrong. There’s nothing wrong in
staying away from a situation that will clearly push you into negative
thoughts. A good example might be staying away from an argument with someone
which you know will make you feel bad and angry. What would you gain by the
argument? What would you lose if you stayed away from it? See, there’s nothing
wrong in staying away from it. There’s no need to resort to violence to settle
an issue. That’s an ugly shortcut that brings in a lot of negativity.
So always remember to
steer completely away from negativity, and you will do just fine. You will
notice that as and when you start putting yourself in positive surroundings,
you will feel happy and fresh at all times. Life isn’t short. It is quite long.
It will be short only when you drown yourself in negative thoughts. Push them
away and see the positive side of life. You will notice how beautiful and
enjoyable each moment is, and how much you can benefit by keeping yourself
happy all the time.